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Practice Being Curious

When we disagree, we can divide from, caricature and demonize others quickly. If we can develop the skill of being curious, we can discover that having healthy relationships with people who disagree with us on almost everything can be life-giving and beneficial to our hearts. Just as importantly, we begin to develop the skill of protecting the power of others.

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    Practice Listening without Arguing

    Have you noticed that when someone is really good at arguing they don’t come across as being informed, they come across as being a know-it-all? That is rarely effective if you want to change someone’s mind. You will change more minds by listening well than you will by being argumentative.

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      Practice Speaking without Arguing

      Have you ever tried to explain to someone why you disagree with them and instead of listening they just want to argue? Here are some tips to help people slow down and pay attention to what you’re trying to say.

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