Heart ToolsDo you know anyone who seems emotionally shut down or even depressed? Or do you feel confused because your own emotions often seem so much more muted than other people’s emotions? In this video Greg shares why that happens and how we can restore our hearts to the way they were meant to work.
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If you master this one skill all of your relationships will become more life-giving for you and for the people who are important to you. Some people call it Reflective Listening. Others call it Listening with Empathy. Whatever you call it, we’ll give you the three steps for doing it well. We’ll also give you a free tool to help you master this skill if you click here: https://mailchi.mp/golovelive/8l35f80o4p
It’s helpful to appreciate what others do to enrich our lives. But there are also times we need to be able to appreciate others not for what they do but for who they are. Learn how some simple words can deeply touch the people you care about.
When you master giving appreciation but are getting little in return, it can be easy to feel taken for granted. Fortunately, there is a simple practice you can adopt to get the appreciation you need in healthy ways.
Arguing, labeling and demonizing: We often behave as if a disagreement means we have to be enemies. Nothing can be further from the truth. If you master the skill of listening with respect, you can build life-giving friendships with people who are very different from you. The best relationships are the ones where room for disagreement is protected.
Have you noticed that when someone is really good at arguing they don’t come across as being informed, they come across as being a know-it-all? That is rarely effective if you want to change someone’s mind. You will change more minds by listening well than you will by being argumentative.